Importance of Self Love

Self-love is precious in our life. Yeah! I have learned about it many times from many platforms, but do we know its importance? If we know do we follow it? For us, without making excuses that “I didn’t have time or I don’t feel to do it”.No matter who you are, you got to know the importance of self-love and its meaning. Self-love means never weakening yourself, it always means you do what is good for you, how you are putting yourself in the first place and yes, if you are putting yourself in the first place. Yeah, you are selfish but in a good way. According to me, Selfish isn’t an adverse word. I am not mean, I just love myself. I just want to describe the whole importance of self-love in a simple way. I hope you will surely feel to follow it.

Happiness

If anyone asks you what you want really, happiness and peace will be the answer. Yeah, of course! money too. Happiness is not always about materialistic things, it is also about mindfulness, self alone time, taking care of yourself in many ways like reading books, pampering yourself, exercising etc. Happiness comes from inside, you need to think about what is filled inside you, are these thoughts making you happy? Do you allow yourself to be non-judgmental, do you prioritize yourself? Once you will start prioritizing yourself, you will know your accomplishments and outcomes. It will convince you by understanding what you are going to do next, except that you are not stepping on others footmarks. Self love restores happiness.

Confidence

If you are constantly looking for others’ opinions and validating whether you are doing right or wrong, indeed you are lacking confidence because you are not understanding the Selflove… You are doing meaningless to you and bringing down yourself. Self-love builds confidence in you, it will make you realize the real power of you. Take a risk and start taking action on your own, write your own story without consulting or copying others. You will see difference, you will feel significant and yeah Honey! that is confidence. Make sure once that confidence takes place in you, live it carefully. After all it’s your superpower.. you may harm yourself as well as others if you wont use it with understanding.

Clear mind

Self-love helps to detox the mind, we all have gone through the circumstances where we don’t know what to do with our lives and how to handle the situation. Then we start following others to find the answers to everything. However it is a temporary solution, we can’t depend on others for finding our solution. Having clarity in mind helps to keep life on track and we have a clear focus on what we want. If you love who you are then certainly you had a clear vision of yourself where you are standing and where you need to be present. You come to know what is your personality.

Acceptance

I have seen many tough moments in my life, and have taken many wrong decisions. So what! we are human we do learn eventually and find out what we should not do. But after those years, I come to know how important it is to accept your flaws and learn them. If you don’t such it will bring resentment in your life. Every emotion is valid, accept your emotions. Acceptance will bring the love and upgrade your perspective to see the world in very amazing way.

Helps to be productive

Self-love will push you to cross your line of the comfort zone. You start learning new skills and good habits in your daily life. You will learn to love your body and nurture your mind and soul. Once you learn you will not be lazy, you will think creatively and be productive. No matter how small a task you do but you will do it to make yourself productive. You’ll come to know how much and when to work. You will start practicing it in your daily life.

Improve relationship

Self-love brings contentment to your life. Therefore, it makes you bring those people in your life who add the value, not the type of person who drains your energy and sucks the positivity. You knows what love is, you knows how many factors are there for maintaining a relationship, cause relationship is like a plant you need to water it, protect it and let it grow on its own. Regarding maintaining the relationship we will discuss it in another post. Simply, self-love improves your relationship whether it is with your parents, your sibling or your partner. It brings the power to face those tough situations which may break your bond, but you don’t give up easily, because you know what you choose and what you want.

After the pandemic we all have realized how much, “self love” is important, what things you should do to maintain the peace and joy for this soul. Self-love is key to everything that you want to achieve. Because it makes you in that way. From this moment let’s all start giving time to ourselves and work on what makes us better.